Have you gotten in a rut of using the same phrases over and over to encourage students? Repeatedly saying “You did great!” can cause the sentiment to lose its effectiveness over time and even start to sound insincere. And relying only on praise like “You’re so smart!” can cause kids to attribute their success to innate talent, rather than hard work and perseverance.
However, I do think praise has an important place in the classroom. Who doesn’t enjoy hearing that they’re awesome on occasion from a person who genuinely means it? Sometimes kids truly wow you with their performance, and I don’t think you should hide that fact because you’re afraid of over-celebrating a student’s accomplishment. If you mean it, you can say it!
Drawing attention to a job well done (and encouraging kids when they’re halfway there) is an important part of nurturing kids’ development. When used correctly, appreciation and encouragement can reinforce good choices, build a rapport, help develop self-confidence, and inspire kids to do their best.
Here are 6 tips to help you effectively encourage your students:
So, how can you get out of the “good job” rut while still using phrases that feel natural to you?
In the image below, I’ve compiled some of my favorite ways to encourage kids. Some of them call attention to kids’ natural traits, while others reinforce grit and effort. There are also phrases that emphasize how kids’ choices make other people feel, and help build empathy and socio-emotional intelligence. See which ones fit your teaching style and context, and try mixing them into your regular phrases!
You can also use many of these phrases to help kids show appreciation to their peers, compliment one another, and recognize each other’s hard work. The more students hear you use these phrases, the more likely they are to pick up the same language and encourage one another.
Click here to access a printable list in a Google Doc.
Do you use a phrase that’s not on the list? Share it in the comments below!